Happy Monday, friends! Starting the week can either be exhilarating, or to some, soul crushing. It can be hard to be excited to start your week if you’re not in the right headspace. So I’m here to help you start off your Monday on the right foot with a few tips that help me when I’m struggling.
1) Wake up early and plan out your week (this can also be done Sunday). Lay out your calendar so you know what lies ahead. If you have a significant other, do this with them. It always helps reduce my stress when I know what my week looks like.
2) Start your Monday with a bit of meditation. Take 10 minutes before you get started for the day to reset. I love using the apps Headspace and Equinox (in app headstrong) for guided meditations at home.
3) Make a good breakfast. There’s nothing like setting yourself up for the day with a good breakfast. My everyday go to is 2 soft boiled eggs, coffee (with MCT oil) and a piece of fruit. You don’t need to get fancy.
4) Get a workout in! Starting your week with a workout helps set your intention for the week! Saying to yourself that “you time” is a priority can be very effective.
5) Find someone to do Standup with. Standup is a tool my startup-minded husband taught me. Take a few minutes with your significant other, co-worker or friend (in person or over the phone, but you must be standing) to state what you completed yesterday, what are you completing today and what are you blocked on. For me it’s a tool to help me put out into the world what I’m going to accomplish and where I need help.
Are there ways you like to conquer your Monday and set yourself up for success? I’d love to hear from you!
It’s safe to say that by the time spring rolls around we are all ready to break out the wardrobe that’s been sitting in the back of the closet for the last 2 seasons. And if you happen to be a New Yorker, you are currently so over winter, it’s not even funny (hello April snow!).
So as we consider our spring wardrobe ahead, it’s easy to wonder, what in the world should I wear out of the house that will get me through the day looking pulled together but ready for whatever comes my way. One of my go to, and always pulled together fashion uniforms is a trench + jeans + heels. These three items should be staples in any woman’s wardrobe.
I added a few of my favorite spring trend forward items to the look to add a fresh update. This macrame bag is on serious repeat while I will spring to come to NYC. It’s also very reasonable for one of this season’s it bags (ringing in between $338- $375). I decided to give the 90’s cat eye sunglass trend a whirl and was actually surprised by how much I liked the shape. I loved the glasses paired with this look, but was careful not to go too trendy with the rest of the styling.
I will fully admit that I am a sucker for a blazer. I recently was doing a bit of spring cleaning and realized I have at least 15 black blazers in my closet, all of which I can’t get rid of and seem to feel they have different uses and needs. I realize this makes absolutely no sense and should get rid of at least 50% of them. At this point though, it’s going to require one of my friends and built-in stylists to make me purge them.
A great blazer, pair of jeans and classic white tee has been my go to uniform for years.
On days when nothing else will do, that look always seems to work. My current blazer love affair is with this number from Veronica Beard. I’ve been following the brand for a few years now and know their outerwear and jackets will always make me feel like a million bucks. This double breasted version that I picked up from Intermix is great if you’re looking for a piece that is super versatile. The fabric is a lightweight dark blue wool herringbone with a strong shoulder and just the right length to wear with jeans. Also, one of my favorite parts about the jacket selection from Veronica Beard is they have optional “dickies” you can zip into the interior and change up the look. I have a leather moto jacket dickie from a VB camel coat that can transition into my blazer.
When looking to effortlessly style a blazer,
I like to keep my accessories “simplish”. These boots from Stuart Weitzman are anything but simple. They create a long line that helps you look lean, and a little bit taller than you are. The bag Joanna Maxham is my current all day essential and chameleon of a bag. It holds an entire day’s worth of stuff (laptop, workout clothes, notebook, makeup bag, etc) and is super chic with this jacket. I have the all leather version, but they just recently launched new fabrication which is great for an everyday bag.
Here are my favorite blazers from Veronica Beard this season, many of which you can purchase dickies to zip in for a whole different look:
If you’re like me, giving up sugar might feel like an impossible challenge. Having a little something sweet after your meal and sugar with your coffee is just the norm. Treating yourself with is a daily habit, and 3pm without a little something, means you won’t get through the afternoon.
A few months ago, my husband and I decided to give The Whole 30 a shot. We spent 30 days without dairy, sugar, alcohol, gluten, and legumes. It was the hard critical look at our diets that we both needed. But that was a few months ago now. Slowly but surely, sugar started making its way back into my diet. So when the team at Sweet Defeat asked me to join their 7 day sugar free challenge, I said yes. So why should you give up sugar with me? There are so many reasons, but here are a few.
10 Reasons To Give Up Sugar
It makes you look old. Yes, I said old. Sugar breaks down the collagen in your skin and decreases elasticity. So, what’s the point of all that expensive skincare if you’re working against yourself?
It causes inflammation in the body.
It makes you eat more. Sugar never leaves you satisfied, so you end up eating more looking for that satisfaction.
It’s addicting. You know exactly what I’m talking about.
It makes you fat. There are no vitamins or minerals in sugar. Those empty calories convert to fat, and more especially, fat around your mid section. So all those ab exercises you’re doing in preparation for summer? You’re working against yourself if you add sugar to your diet.
It affects your ability to think. Have you ever felt like you’re in a brain fog? Yup, sugar can do that to you.
It slows you down. Yes, that sugar spike after you eat something sweet is real. You may feel more upbeat for a moment, but then the sugar crash comes along, and it’s all down hill.
It can lead to diabetes.
Sugar destroys your liver.
It’s bad for your heart.
So now that you know all the bad stuff, let’s talk about something positive. Giving up sugar really isn’t that hard. 7 days is the perfect start because it gives you a goal that is realistic. I also gave myself a leg up on this challenge by partnering with Sweet Defeat. Sweet Defeat is a mint lozenge that dissolves on the tongue and helps dull the taste of sweet on your tongue for 1 hour. It also helps cut down sugar cravings. I used one lozenge post meal everyday for 7 days (which honestly kept me from eating a LOT of temptations at the office). It was the tool I needed to help start this journey.
How do I feel now that the 7 days is up? I definitely have more energy for my daily workouts, my skin is much more glowy, and I wake up a little bit clearer and less foggy everyday. All in all, I think I’m going to keep going! Yes, if there’s something special, I will indulge, but honestly, I’m not really missing it.
Sweet Defeat and I are hosting a giveaway on Instagram! Head to @ekammeyer to enter to win a box for your own 7 day challenge.
Thank you Sweet Defeat for partnering with me on this post. What I choose to post is 100% my own choice and opinion.
I was reminiscing the other day with a girlfriend about the days when we used to have a wardrobe full of “going out” tops. Remember those ones with the lace trims, sparkles, and way too many straps? That fun little number that made you feel like you were ready to hit the town and paint it red with all of your girlfriends? Oh, those were the days.
Even though I gave those tops up ages ago, I still love that piece in your wardrobe that just makes you ready for a night full of fun. This little number from Caroline Constas is just that. I love the update on the statement sleeve top, and especially love the fact that it’s a bodysuit. I layered it with my current wardrobe staples, my All Saints Leather Moto and a pair of Levi’s 501 altered jeans.
The way I looked at workout gear pivoted a few years ago. I used to view it as just gear that you were sweating it out in, so who cared (I know guys). I would grab an old t-shirt and a pair of shorts from my lacrosse days and head out for a run.
It wasn’t until I started getting into group fitness classes that I realized there was a movement towards creating beautiful gear. Last year I attend a class at Bandier and was introduced to an amazing niche brand called LNDR. LNDR combines high performance gear with high fashion. Their attention to detail, color and silhouette makes my mouth water every time they drop a new collection.
I especially love them for their seamless styles. They give you a hugged sensation and are fantastic for everything from spinning to running to HIIT. The set I’m wearing here is the A-Grade sports bra and the Eight Eight leggings (on sale too!) The bra is a long line fit for a bit more of a crop top silhouette and the leggings are super high waisted and long in the inseam. The set makes you look long and lean. I take a M/L in both pieces.
So where am I sweating it out in my LNDR gear? Here are my top 10 workouts I’m obsessing over in 2018:
Soulcycle – A NYC boutique fitness classic and a super fun way to sweat it out. Two of my favorite instructors are Stevie and Monique!
Xtend Barre Tribeca– A classic barre class but with a bit more cardio. I love how full body the classes are. Your heart rate gets well elevated and its more than just a toning class.
Brooklyn Total Fitness– If you live in Brooklyn, this is a must! Their bootcamp style classes in the early morning are kick ass and are an amazing way to start your day!
Body Conceptions– One of my favorite dance inspired classes. The seat section is brutal in the best way! Hello lifted butt.
Mile High Run Club– Especially good this time of year for those that don’t like outdoor running. I love Mile High because they get you doing sprint intervals I can’t bring myself to do on my own.
Equinox– I’m excited to announce I’m partnering with Equinox in 2018. I love all of their classes but am especially excited about Precision Running. I also can’t say no to the eucalyptus scented towels and a good steam room post workout.
Uplift Studios– The HIIT classes are a fantastic total body workout. I also love this women’s only studio for their personal training.
F45– Honestly this is an intense workout, but let me tell you, it was the fastest 45 minute workout I’ve EVER done. The workout is a tabata style intervals.
The Class by Taryn Toomey– I like to think of it as yoga meets HIIT meets meditation. Honestly one of the most original classes I’ve ever attended and the studio is STUNNING!
The Rope by Amanda Kloots– Hands down a full body workout to amazing music, this jump roping class is so much fun. Amanda is one of my favorite instructors in NYC and super high energy.
Hey everyone! Today I’m so excited to be bringing you a massive giveaway for the new year! I’ve teamed up with some of my favorite bloggers to give away $1k to Anthropologie! All you have to do is enter below in the Rafflecopter widget! Good luck!
Hi Friends! I hope everyone is having an amazing week. I know so many find the holiday season stressful, and yes, that can be true. But I truly adore the holiday season and celebrating with friends and family! Holiday parties galore call for endless outfits. I love a festive look, but sometimes you want something thats a bit more casual, with a little edge, instead of feeling like you dumped a bucket of glitter on yourself. A great pair of boots can help add a little edge to any outfit. This pair from Sudini adds a whole lot of comfort to the look as well. The centerpiece of this look is one of my favorite pieces from Marissa Webb, the queen of downtown edge, but in the most refined way. Winter dressing is all about layers. I took this double breasted vest top and layered a turtleneck bodysuit under it. Paired with a little distressed denim and tall boots, the look is so easy and great for rocking from office to holiday party.
Style tip: I buttoned the vest off center. You can do this with any kind of vest for a look with a bit of interest.
Time is a funny thing. We never seem to have enough of it, it can feel like it’s flying or standing still. My days feel like I never have enough of time, but there are those moments where time halts to savor every bit of a joyous feeling. My wedding day was a mixture of the two. It flew by in what felt like a flash of light, but at the same time I will forever remember looking at my husband as we recited our vows together – for that moment in a garden in France, time stood still.
In a world where most people track time on their mobile phones, many forget that a watch can be a well placed accessory in your look. As most of you well know by now, I love a good accessory. A treasured timepiece like this beauty from Seiko helps me keep track all of those special moments, while fitting perfectly into my stack of mixed-metal arm candy that I don everyday. I love the simplicity with a dash of sparkle.
I styled mine with a layered sweater, a great pair of skinny jeans and a classic bag. Sometimes simplicity is best.
Thank you Evine for partnering with me on this post. My opinions and what I choose to wear are 100% my own.
Pumpkin pie, green beans, stuffing and 3 kinds of cranberry relish start calling my name the moment Thanksgiving rounds the corner. I adore the holidays and absolutely love sitting down with our family at Thanksgiving. It’s one of the few times a year when we all gather around the table to share a meal, catch up on our lives and spend the day curled up and enjoying each other’s company.
But with all of that family time and fantastic food can come lots of sluggish days, full stomachs and missed fitness goals. You should absolutely enjoy your time with family and friends but also be mindful of the food you’re putting in your body and keeping yourself on track.
When turkey day arrives keep these 10 tips in mind to stay healthy and fit this thanksgiving:
Eat breakfast. You may think you’re saving extra calories for later but by not eating breakfast, you’re more likely to binge when you get to the big meal. Eat a healthy breakfast with veggies and good fats to start your day off right.
Drink enough Water. Many people confuse hunger with thirst. Make sure you’re well hydrated by keeping a water bottle with you for the day.
Get some exercise. No matter the length of time, just get out there and get your blood pumping. If you only have 20 minutes, no problem, do a tabata workout. Anything from a hike with family, a barre class or a run outside will be a great start to the day.
Go easy on the appetizers. Cheese and crackers are there all year. Save your calories for the main attraction.
Use a smaller plate. Studies find you eat about 25% less if you use a smaller plate vs a bigger one. This is such an easy trade there’s no excuse not to.
Chew slowly. I know I know, but it tastes so good. Chewing slowly allows your brain to catch up with your stomach. Fast eaters consume around three ounces of food per minute, while slow eaters only eat about two ounces per minute. That can mean a lot less calories. So enjoy the dinner conversation and enjoy your food.
Be mindful of liquid calories. Now don’t get me wrong, I love a good glass of wine. But it’s easy to consume more calories than you mean to. Try substituting cocktails with lots of sugar for a vodka soda or something less sweet.
Meditate. Stress can get the best of you and cause you to not enjoy the day or binge on an entire pumpkin pie. Meditation can help you manage that stress in a more productive way. I love the app Headspace for at home meditation.
Write down what you’re thankful for. It’s easy to let the holiday season zoom by. Take a moment to sit down and write down 5 things you’re thankful for this season.
Red. That color that warms the soul and to me, signals time for the leaves to change. I’ve always always always loved this color. There are so many amazing trends this fall that I’m so on board with. But the easiest trend to wear this fall is the all red uniform!
I absolutely fell in love with this gorgeous red coat from Banana Republic during fashion week. I love the military details, the classic wool overcoat style, and the large lapel. It’s the perfect coat for everyday or just a fun statement when the days are grey and the sun sets all too early. I paired mine with my faaaaaavorite jeans right now from Levi’s. They’re the go to rigid denim with just the right distressing. They’re high waisted, which I love, and loose in just the right way. You don’t always need to feel painted into your jeans. Paired with a classic white lace top and my go to statement red heels from Manolo Blahnik.
You can incorporate a dash of red or go for the whole damn look! Here I decided to pair a great pair of red Manolos with a red overcoat (bought mine one size big (size large) so it was a bit more oversized, if you want it more fitted, buy true to size). But I’m totally obsessed with an entire red uniform. Adios all black uniform, heeeellllloooo all red! Here are a few of my favorite red picks for fall to create your red uniform.
What trends are you loving this fall? I would love to hear from you! Head back to Accessories Gal Monday next week for a little bit of print mixing fun.